[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/vlastnosti-ktere-vstepujeme-detem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/vlastnosti-ktere-vstepujeme-detem\/","headline":"Vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 v\u0161t\u011bpujeme d\u011btem","name":"Vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 v\u0161t\u011bpujeme d\u011btem","description":"A\u010dkoliv jsou n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 vlastnosti vrozen\u00e9, a nelze je nikterak moc m\u011bnit, jsou tu i […]","datePublished":"2021-12-09","dateModified":"2023-05-15","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/dcb1aeb5e7d95014cdc92e76cf3c72f6b456579bf773ad0081803a6569ffc19c?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"gryfmm.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/brothers-457234_640_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/brothers-457234_640_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/vlastnosti-ktere-vstepujeme-detem\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":582,"articleBody":"A\u010dkoliv jsou n\u011bkter\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 vlastnosti vrozen\u00e9, a nelze je nikterak moc m\u011bnit, jsou tu i ty z\u00edskan\u00e9, tedy nau\u010den\u00e9. Nesta\u010d\u00ed v\u0161ak d\u00edt\u011bti \u0159\u00edkat co nesm\u00ed, co by m\u011blo, a co si m\u00e1 myslet, ale v\u0161e mu n\u00e1zorn\u011b uk\u00e1zat, a pomoci mu st\u00e1t se nejlep\u0161\u00ed verz\u00ed sebe sam\u00e9ho. Jak ale na to?EmpatieEmpatie je velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1, mo\u017en\u00e1 o to v\u00edc, \u017ee ji spousta lid\u00ed omezuje. Schopnost vc\u00edtit se do druh\u00fdch a souc\u00edtit je v\u0161ak z\u00e1kladem toho, aby z v\u00e1s byl dobr\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk. Je tedy nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 empatii u va\u0161eho d\u00edt\u011bte rozv\u00edjet. Jak? Nen\u00ed to nijak slo\u017eit\u00e9. Za prv\u00e9 je toti\u017e pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee d\u011bti pozoruj\u00ed na\u0161e vzorce chov\u00e1n\u00ed, a pot\u00e9 je i napodobuj\u00ed. Pokud se chov\u00e1te hezky k druh\u00fdm lidem, zv\u00ed\u0159at\u016fm, a tak\u00e9 pr\u00e1v\u011b ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem, p\u0159evezmou od v\u00e1s tento vzorec, a budou jej pova\u017eovat za samoz\u0159ejm\u00fd. D\u00e1le pak lze empatii rozv\u00edjet tak, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011bti otev\u0159ete dve\u0159e k tomu, aby ji dok\u00e1zalo samo vyv\u00edjet. P\u00e9\u010d\u00ed o zv\u00ed\u0159ata, hran\u00ed si s men\u0161\u00edmi d\u011btmi, a tak\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee budete o pocitech mluvit. Pokud se toti\u017e za n\u011bkter\u00e9 sv\u00e9 emoce styd\u00edte, bude je va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b pova\u017eovat za \u0161patn\u00e9, a za\u010dne je potla\u010dovat. Nebojte se tedy p\u0159ed d\u00edt\u011btem plakat (ale ne ka\u017ed\u00fd den, kv\u016fli malichernostem), sm\u011bjte se, obj\u00edmejte.Zodpov\u011bdnostU\u017e mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b by m\u011blo pochopit, \u017ee akce vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 reakci. Tedy ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010din, kter\u00fd vykon\u00e1, se d\u0159\u00edve \u010di pozd\u011bji st\u0159etne s odezvou. Pokud jste mu nap\u0159\u00edklad zak\u00e1zali sk\u00e1kat na posteli, a ono stejn\u011b sk\u00e1kalo, na\u010de\u017e spadlo a uhodilo se, nelitujte jej. Pokud si sv\u00fdm neopatrn\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm rozbilo obl\u00edbenou hra\u010dku, nenahrazujte mu ji. Pokud si v pokoj\u00ed\u010dku ud\u011bl\u00e1 nepo\u0159\u00e1dek, nechte jej, a\u0165 ho samo uklid\u00ed. Pokud n\u011bco ztrat\u00ed, nechte jej, aby to samo hledalo. I d\u011bti toti\u017e mus\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed ovliv\u0148uje v\u0161e kolem nich.C\u00edlev\u011bdomost a pracovitostC\u00edlev\u011bdomost je v \u017eivot\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. Pokud nejdete za sv\u00fdm c\u00edlem pevn\u011b a odhodlan\u011b, nejsp\u00ed\u0161 jej nikdy nedos\u00e1hnete. A pr\u00e1v\u011b to se mus\u00ed u\u010dit i va\u0161e d\u011bti. Ned\u00e1vejte jim d\u00e1rky jen tak (samoz\u0159ejm\u011b krom\u011b narozenin, v\u00e1noc a sv\u00e1tk\u016f.) Pokud n\u011bco cht\u011bj\u00ed, mus\u00ed si to zaslou\u017eit. U\u010dte je, \u017ee k tomu, aby n\u011bco z\u00edskali, mus\u00ed vyvinout snahu, a vydr\u017eet. U\u010dte je zvl\u00e1dat ne\u00fasp\u011bchy, a u\u017e\u00edvat si \u00fasp\u011bchy. K tomuto jsou dobr\u00e1 cvi\u010den\u00ed v podobn\u011b r\u016fzn\u00fdch sout\u011b\u017e\u00ed, a her.Vychovat z d\u00edt\u011bte samostatn\u00e9ho, schopn\u00e9ho, a zodpov\u011bdn\u00e9ho jedince je um\u011bn\u00ed kombinace snahy a \u00fastupu. P\u0159ed n\u011bkter\u00fdmi p\u00e1dy jej mus\u00edte ochr\u00e1nit, ale ty mal\u00e9 mu klidn\u011b ponechte, aby se nau\u010dilo, \u017ee v\u017edy lze vst\u00e1t, a zkusit to znovu. Bu\u010fte trp\u011bliv\u00ed, miluj\u00edc\u00ed, a podporuj\u00edc\u00ed, a uvid\u00edte, \u017ee ud\u011bl\u00e1te dob\u0159e.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.2\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Vlastnosti, kter\u00e9 v\u0161t\u011bpujeme d\u011btem","item":"https:\/\/www.gryfmm.cz\/vlastnosti-ktere-vstepujeme-detem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]